It happens on nearly every expedition. Somewhere around the second evening, someone looks up and says it, usually without meaning to. "It feels like we've been here a week." Two days in the mountains, and the time has somehow stretched to twice its size.
I felt this myself for years before I had any way to explain it. You come back from two days on the alpage and your ordinary life feels oddly distant, as though you had been away far longer than the calendar will admit.
Now picture the opposite kind of time. The 8:30 call. The emails you answer in the gap between two meetings. Lunch in front of a screen, if you can even call it lunch. The evening that is gone before you have noticed it arrive. Whole weeks that pass without leaving much of a mark.
Same number of hours, the same clocks on the wall, and yet a completely different experience of time.
Maybe the real question is not how much time you have. Maybe it is what kind of time you are living in.
The man who studied invisible things
Edward T. Hall was an American anthropologist who spent his career on the things cultures never say out loud. How close we stand to one another. What we do with silence. And the way we live inside time.
In his book The Dance of Life he described two very different relationships people have with time. Tap each one below to get a feel for the difference.
Monochronic time
The time of the clock. Linear, and segmented, one thing after another. Appointments, deadlines, agendas. Time becomes a resource you spend, save, waste or lose. Switzerland, Germany and North America all live this way. It is the time that runs our trains, our offices and our inboxes.
Polychronic time
The time of the moment. Fluid and layered, several things happening at once, with relationships coming before schedules. A conversation does not get cut short just because the clock says so. Much of the Mediterranean, Latin America, the Middle East and Africa lives closer to this rhythm. Time here is not spent. It is inhabited.
Hall never argued that one was better than the other. His point was that most of us have no idea which one we are living in. We inherited a particular relationship with time, and we have never thought to question it.
Now look at your day once more. The meetings stacked back to back, the inbox, the calendar cutting your hours into neat little blocks. That is not only a schedule. It is a whole culture, running quietly in the background of your life.